Divorce Demystified
New York -  Check New York Court Help. It offers forms and information about the law and court procedures.

North Carolina - there is a state court website that has forms available, but entering the search term "divorce" didn't turn up any results and the site wasn't user friendly in my view. Try the Law Help North Carolina Help North Carolina for more easily find-able forms, information about clinics, and some referrals. They have a self-help divorce packet online, as well as numerous other free resources.

North Dakota - the North Dakota Supreme Courthas forms on its website, but notes that court employees can't give any information about how to fill them out. There is a Clerk's Manual for Self-Represented Parties.

Ohio - The Ohio Legal Service's Self Service Centers website offers videos, information and links to court forms.

Oklahoma - there's an Oklahoma State Courts Network website,that has a "click-through" link to Oklahoma Legal Aid's self help forms. 

Oregon - the Oregon Courts Self-Help website has family law forms and info.

Pennsylvania - the Pennsylvania court website now has information and resources for people representing themselves in family law matters.

Rhode Island - the Judiciary of Rhode Island website has forms for family law matters. The site didn't seem user-friendly. I found Divorce Support.comsite more informative.